I was reading one of my favourite web design blogs, by a fellow named D. Keith Robinson, and I got to thinking how sometimes what it takes to really make it in this world has a lot to do with your name and how people relate to it. How it flows off the tongue, the imagery it evokes, the resonance it strikes with people.
The importance of one's name is all around us. Take Australian Idol as an example - surely the reason that Ngaiire ("nigh-ree") didn't poll enough votes is because her name was too damn hard for people to type into their phones when sending their votes through (the girl rocked the house and had an incredible voice!) Of course that was the reason, because we all know Australians aren't racist and it had nothing to do with the fact that she was black, now did it? (Note: can someone tell me why Angie, who had an even more awesome voice also got voted off then??)
Oops, there I go getting all political again. Back to my main point which is far from political, and that is that your name can make or break you.
Which is why I am contemplating doing what many famous people have done and going by my second name. Not dropping the first name entirely; just keeping the first initial. It is quite a phenomenon. You know, like:
You get the picture. A friend of mine has taken this approach. Although she doesn't personally remember the details of how it happened, her parents were happy to fill her in later in life - apparently Belinda, at the age of about 3, decided to throw a tantrum and refuse to respond to Belinda. Yes, on that day she announced to the world that she would from then on be known only by her middle name: Kate. She now signs forms as "B. Kate", and Kate has been Kate ever since. And she is doing really well in her career, so there must be a correlation.
The only problem is: my middle name is John.
Not that John is a bad name. My favourite uncle is a John. I love lots of Johns. John Coltrane, Johnny Cash, John Wayne. I will admit that the first CD I ever bought was a John Farnham album. Hell, I even liked Johnny Young when I was a kid. And I sure as hell hope John Kerry wins the election (but not John Howard!)
Unfortunately John just doesn't evoke the same mystery as M. Night Shyamalan for example, even when I stick an 'M' in front.
I guess it's back to good old Matthew.
Never mind. Perhaps you, dear reader, could help me compile a list of famous "First Initial People". Just because I haven't seen it done before.
I've started us off with a whole stack of (mostly) authors (with a little help from Google), but who else can you come up with? Or, if you are an FIP yourself then feel free to tell us how or why you chose to adopt your middle name!
Let me start...
F. Murray Abraham
C. Thomas Howell.....
W. Edwards Deming springs to mind.
Are most of these people American? Why is that so?
What about famous middle initials? I'd love to know what the middle name of Jesus H. Christ was.
Posted by: Hammy at September 7, 2004 11:03 PMi was thinking about famous middle initial names too. i was told by a "psychic" on my 16th birthday to always use my middle initial and i have ever since. in fact, i'm completely dropping my last name when i get married because i love my middle initial so much and wouldn't want to give it up in favor of making my old last name my new middle name. "J".. what a great letter! i was also thinking of J.K. Rowling. i wonder if the more initials you use, the more money you make?
Posted by: gleek at September 8, 2004 02:05 AMWhat about Harold S Truman? There is no fullstop after the "S" as it is his middle name. Apparently it was something in the family and has been carried on for a while. Quite quirky.
Posted by: Hammy at September 8, 2004 06:17 PMAt least your middle name isn't Marion. Not that John Wayne's name was either. His name was Marion Mitchell but his middle name was a mystery - Michael, Mitchell or even Robert - according to this article.
http://entertainment.msn.com/artist/?artist=121921
You could do worse than John.
I've got a funny story from my home town. There, the local swimming coach, is a Mr Tom Krueger. His real name is Gerhard Horst Karl Gustave Frierich Wilhelm Kurt Krueger. When he migrated to Australia the boss on the railway didn't know how to pronounce his name, and all of the other German migrants' names, and so he said, "What would you like to be called, Tom, Dick or Harry?"
No shit.
Posted by: Hammy at September 8, 2004 08:50 PMYou know, another option available to you, Matt, could be to add Jr or Sr at the end of your name. You could even consider a Roman numeral. How about both...?
Posted by: Jeremy at September 10, 2004 02:49 PMHmm. M. John Magain III Jr. I like it!
Posted by: mattymcg at September 12, 2004 11:52 AMWhy don't you just go as MJ?
Posted by: Hammy at September 13, 2004 04:18 PMAlmost everyone who goes by their middle name has been this way ever since the day that they were born. My parents did this to my brother when he was born and they did the same thing to my sister. I am the youngest kid in my family and they did it to me too. It always started at birth. My brother is 46 and my sister is 44. I'm 43 years old.
Posted by: Elaine at October 27, 2004 03:24 AM